Who hasn’t loved and fallen in love? Who hasn’t experienced the pain of a heart break? They say (I dont know who…) “All is fair is LOVE and WAR”. The person who said that deserves a kick to the butt. Its only fair as long as there is a mutual respect, as long as they don’t encroach each others freedom, as long as they are not hysterical, as long as there is only healthy possessiveness. After that its no different or much worse, that owning a slave.

So u might be wondering, what happened, this lover of TUX is talking of LOVE. “Ohh he is just heart broken” … “Ohh some girl might have slapped him” or worse “He is having an inferiority complex when he is with is girl and he cant stand it” … To be clear i wish i had a girl in the first place. So then why am i blabbering like this. I just happened to see one of my most beloved friends getting betrayed by a bloody 2 timer.

So here is their story in short… He went off to work in an established IT firm and she was in her last year of graduation. I still remember her saying, “finally i can join him at work too”. We considered them as the luckiest pair. Towards the end of her graduation there relation began to worsen. Around that time he fell for another girl at work. Well he didnt even had the courtesy to call-up the relationship with my friend. All the while he kept avoiding her, all the while when we told her to break-up with him coz we couldn’t see him treating her like this, she said, “No i know him, he is just too busy with his work, that’s the reason. All will be fine when i join him there”.

He should have shown the courtesy to call-off the relationship, the moment he fell for the other girl. Everyone who knew of their relationship and actually seen them together, feels cheated. This isn’t fair, this is not justice. Now i present him as one of the examples of MEN, u shouldn’t be. The fact is he is a personality among his friends and at his college too.

I’m referring this as the POST Love Syndrome, where when you want to break-up with a person u have two options. Talk to the person and tell them that you are calling-off the relation or the second avoid the person and die a slow rotten stinking death. The first way is quick and effective. But the second way involves pain for both and god knows why majority go for the second option.

Guys please respect your lover or may be ex-lover, they too deserve respect. The case i mentioned, the girl for whom the guy fell for might be a good person, but down here everyone calls her a SLUT!!! If that guy is fine, when half of his friends calls his girl a slut behind his back, why should we bother at all???

We can discuss World Peace for a break!!!

My friend Chacko at Mutiny, had once described people with such behaviors. Quoting exactly what he said – “There isn’t much you can do to help those who think their penis is smaller. They will always be insecure. They won’t come out and say it but you can make out they have a ‘problem’ by their behavior in other issues.”

[Luckily my friend had made her mind to break up with that guy by time she came to know about the news. So it did very little damage. Still it hurt her deep. How did she come to know of the affair? His ORKUT profile gave it off. He never used to ORKUT and out of the blue he started and voila!!! the photos(fool!!!.. dude how could you be so dumb... i saw the fotos, they are HOT).]